What Are the Chances My Husband…?

Question by xxxcariooo: what are the chances my husband…?
My husband and I have been married for quite some time. He likes to play games on the computer and apparently, with me. Although l love hearing him play his games (from the basement), I would like to see him in our marrital bed.

I have tried everything. I see the shadow of him in our room, and hear him with me, but physically he is not there. I miss him. I love him and I think he still loves me. But I can’t seem to get him to come to bed.

We have an intercom system in which he’ll talk to me, but that is all the communication we have.

I miss my husband and wanted to know 1. what can I do to get him to stop playing on the computer and come home to bed. 2. what are the chances he’ll ever just STOP and committ to us?

Best answer:

Answer by abmainer
I have a friend who has this problem although she’s choosing to ignore it. I honestly don’t know how she does it or you either. I’d tell him that you’re going to leave him if he doesnt’ start to give you more attention. Even if you know that you’re not serious maybe he’ll think you are and it will make him smarten up. I know I couldn’t put up with it in my marriage. Good luck. Oh, I’d also get rid of your computer or make it off limits for games.

Answer by geisha
just tell him straight away…tell him that you love him and that you miss him so much…tell him that you feel hurt that computer games take so much of his time and that you wish he would spend more time with you…im sure he will listen to you and try to limit his game playing…

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