“”Christian”” Mother Throwing a Pointless Fit?

Question by Dregs: “”Christian”” mother throwing a Pointless Fit?
Ok. I have came to the thought that my christian mother is bitter or jealous of me for having friends who actually care or wanna spend time with me.

My girlfriend who I have known since January 2011, asked me for help on the last 100 she needed to pay her rent.Heres the thing, my gf has: two sons and two dogs while working out her house saving stray or free animals. She asked me to help pay half of her phonebill but for some reason she used her rent money for her phone.

so when it came to buying the bill, we had to scramble whatever money we had to pay the bill and it came down to $ 100. I gave my gf the money she needed to keep her place or she would get evicted.

When my mother found out, she is saying things like my gf is using me for money which is stupid and believe me it is. Me and my gf have been hanging out every week and from what I know no one who do not have enough for gas money would come 45 mins from their home to their lover or friends place and hangout?

My mother is the type to tell you to be help the needy, good nice, and things like that but when you actually do more than that she would get mad or tihnk smoeone is using you.

my question is, where does the hypocritcial state my mom is in stop?
I USED to work for my mother daycare. I was fired because I was helping my gf keep her place. That is how I made my money.
my mom is the type to tell you not to judge people but when its time for her to apply that to her own life, she doesnt one bit. she is always talking smack about people and will grossip to other people about it.

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Answer by ////
well, i don’t know. sometimes you’ll never understand why women do what they do. trust me, i am one. lol. how do you get your money to help your girl? is it your mom’s money? then, i’d hope you understand. if it’s fully your hard earned money, then i guess she is just being a mother, worried about her baby and … you know… maybe mom wants to be the only lady in your life. don’t fret too much over it, it’s prob. jus a mom thing.

Answer by Christian (.Minister.)
Some use the bible as a game. You dont know if she even believes it herself.

1st of all, maybe you think people/parents can talk anyway they see fit each day. Turns out many are abusers. Actually they are not trying to be tough to make you better or help- they are tricking you. This goes for people at school as well. Words are abuse also.

There are many types of abusive people/parents. Some ignore you. Some hit the bottle. Some hit you. And some run their mouths and put you down. THEY are sick and feel great by being mean, and thats the only reason they do it. They are wrong about everything. The typical abuser is close-minded, self-righteous and was also abused themself. Use defense and read many sites on verbal abuse etc. People tear you down to build themselves up. Its their problem. They do have problems.

Abuse causes pain mistaken as mental problems- Cutting, OCD etc. Psychiatrists commit fraud and all disorders are a hoax. For chemical imbalances NO test exists. You dont have what shrinks say you have. Dont tell anyone about any so called disorders. They will only drug you.

Jesus name and forgiving others who are wrong is important along with avoiding them.

Call or I can- Child Protective Services- Transitional help to age 21- tell your teacher. Dont tell your parents they wont listen.

Learn the truth, forgive, and Get Away from them. Read many many sites under “emotional abuse” and “dealing with bullies”.

I have some questions for you if want to talk about it.

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